Apostle Oral & Everine Hazell 

The Needs of a Woman: Encouraging Harmony in Marriage

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As a pastor, it is essential to understand and address the needs of women in marriages. These needs contribute to the overall well-being and harmony of the family unit. Let's explore these needs through the lens of Scripture and practical guidance to foster love and connection.

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1. The Need for Security

Scripture: Proverbs 31:11

"The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."

Notes:

Trust and Confidence: A woman seeks to trust and be trusted by her husband, creating a secure environment where both can openly share.

Financial Stability: Address her concerns about the family's financial future with thoughtful discussions and responsible planning.

Supportive Diligence: Be diligent and responsible in your work, reassuring her that you're both committed to a stable future.

Description:

A woman desires security not only in her emotions but also in the practical aspects of life. As a husband, it's crucial to foster trust, communicate openly about financial matters, and work together to ensure stability.

2. The Need for Love

Scripture: Ephesians 5:25

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."

Notes:

Selfless Love: Embrace selfless love that mirrors Christ's love for the church, placing her needs above your own.

• Affection and Appreciation: Express affection through words and actions, showing your appreciation for her role in your life.
• Emotional Connection: Prioritize emotional intimacy through open conversations, active listening, and empathy.

Description:

Love is the foundation of a healthy marriage. Demonstrating selfless love, appreciating her, and cultivating emotional connection are essential in fulfilling her need for love and affirmation.

3. The Need for Closeness

Scripture: Genesis 2:24

• "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."

Notes::

• Unity and Partnership: Work as a team, sharing responsibilities and decisions, fostering a sense of unity.
• Quality Time: Allocate quality time for intimate conversations, shared activities, and moments of togetherness.
• Listening and Understanding: Show genuine interest in her thoughts, feelings, and experiences, fostering closeness.

Description:

Closeness is nurtured through unity, quality time, and attentive listening. As a husband, strive to strengthen your bond by engaging in meaningful conversations and activities that reinforce your connection.

4. The Need to Express Herself Creatively

Scripture: Proverbs 31:26

• "She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue."

Notes::

• Encourage Expression: Create a safe space for her to express her thoughts, ideas, and creativity.
• Acknowledge Her Wisdom: Recognize and appreciate her insights, fostering an atmosphere of mutual respect.
• Celebrate Her Talents: Encourage her to pursue creative outlets that bring her joy and fulfillment.

Description:

A woman's creative expression is vital to her sense of self. As her partner, encourage and celebrate her ideas, insights, and talents, nurturing an environment that values her contributions.

5. The Need for Intimacy

Scripture: Song of Solomon 7:10

• "I am my beloved's, and his desire is for me."

Notes:

• Exclusive Connection: Cultivate a sense of exclusivity and intimacy between you both, reinforcing your special bond.
• Physical and Emotional Affection: Prioritize physical touch, gentle gestures, and emotional connection.
• Private Moments: Create moments that are just between the two of you, reinforcing your unique connection.

Description:

Intimacy is a cornerstone of a strong marriage. Nurturing an exclusive, affectionate, and emotionally intimate bond strengthens the sense of belonging and love between you and your wife.

6. The Need for Spiritual Fulfillment

Scripture: Colossians 3:16

• "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom..."

Notes::

• Spiritual Partnership: Engage in spiritual activities together, such as devotionals, prayer, and studying Scripture.
• Encourage Growth: Support her spiritual journey by providing opportunities for growth and learning.
• Mutual Encouragement: Uplift and inspire each other spiritually, fostering a deeper connection with God.

Description:

Spiritual fulfillment is crucial for a woman's well-being. As a husband, lead by example in spiritual matters, and encourage her growth and relationship with God, fostering a strong spiritual foundation.

7. The Need for Romance

Scripture: Song of Solomon 1:2

• "Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! For your love is better than wine."

Notes:

• Thoughtful Gestures: Engage in romantic actions like surprises, love notes, and gifts.
• Memorable Moments: Create shared experiences that strengthen your romantic bond.
• Continual Pursuit: Keep the spark alive by consistently showing your affection and appreciation.

Description:

Romance keeps the love alive and vibrant. Thoughtful gestures, shared experiences, and a continual pursuit of each other's hearts are key to nurturing a passionate and lasting romantic connection.

8. The Need to Feel Attractive

Scripture: Song of Solomon 4:7

• "You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you."

Notes::

• Compliments and Affirmations: Express your admiration for her appearance and qualities.
• Notice the Details: Show attentiveness to her efforts in her appearance and daily life.
• Build Self-Confidence: Boost her self-esteem by consistently reminding her of her beauty.

Subheading Description:

Feeling attractive is essential to a woman's self-esteem. As her partner, show genuine appreciation for her appearance and efforts, building her confidence and reinforcing her value.

9. The Need for Appreciation

Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:11

• "Therefore encourage one another and build one another up..."

Notes:

• Express Gratitude: Show gratitude for her contributions to the home and family.
• Acknowledge Efforts: Recognize her hard work, whether in homemaking or nurturing relationships.
• Build Up and Encourage: Offer words of affirmation and appreciation, uplifting her spirit.

Description:

Appreciation is the foundation of a thriving marriage. Regularly expressing gratitude and acknowledging her efforts fosters a positive atmosphere of love, respect, and mutual support.

Conclusion: Embracing the Needs of Women

*As we reflect on the needs of women, it becomes clear that nurturing a thriving marriage requires understanding, effort, and dedication. Just as Professor Higgins and Colonel Pickering learned to understand Eliza Doolittle in "My Fair Lady," so can we understand and meet the needs of the women in our lives. By valuing security, love, closeness, creative expression, intimacy, spiritual fulfillment, romance, attractiveness.

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